I’ve
watched leaders on three continents suffer needlessly as they tried to sidestep
embarrassment, conflict; and hurting others’ feelings by avoiding the truth.
Instead, they embrace a subtle, discreet, and withholding posture that
sometimes parades as politeness, in an attempt to protect themselves and others.
Unfortunately, their efforts only backfire and they end up with a loss of
credibility, cynical employees, and a colossal case of LeaderShock. The trap in
Rule No. 8 is the Well-Meaning Withholder, a vestige of a more naïve era in
management history, held over at great expense. We must usher in a
new era.










